Remember when you were a kid and you were going to be crazy successful with 3 full time careers that sparked nothing but joy for you? What happened to him or her? Where did he/she go? Obviously, 3 full time careers is unrealistic, but that level of dreaming is magical. Whether you were the career kid or a future perfect parent, the dreaming sadly stops as we get older. Everything seems determined for you. “This is just how life is” seems to be a general consensus. But what if it didn’t have to be?